Instructions:
Write down the answers.
1. How do you decide if someone is “right” for you?
A) I just know, they make my heart race and feel special.
B) I consider compatibility, values, and long-term potential.
C) It depends. I weigh both feelings and practical factors.
2. What attracts you most to someone initially?
A) Their energy, charm, and how they make me feel.
B) Their goals, stability, and how they align with my life plans.
C) A mix of their personality and practical qualities.
3. How do you handle doubts about a relationship?
A) I trust my gut, if it feels off, I act on it immediately.
B) I analyze the situation logically before making a decision.
C) I try to balance my feelings with rational thinking.
4. What’s your reaction when a partner suggests taking things slow?
A) I feel impatient. I want to dive in and see where it goes.
B) I respect their pace, it makes sense to build a strong foundation.
C) I’m okay with slowing down but still hope for progress.
5. How do you choose who to date?
A) I go with my instincts, if there’s chemistry, I pursue it.
B) I evaluate whether they meet my criteria for a compatible partner.
C) I consider both emotional connection and practical fit.
6. What’s your biggest fear in dating?
A) Missing out on love or letting my heart get broken.
B) Wasting time with someone who isn’t a good match long-term.
C) Struggling to balance emotional connection with realistic expectations.
7. How do you react when a partner expresses concerns about the relationship?
A) I feel hurt and focus on reassuring them emotionally.
B) I listen carefully and address the issue logically.
C) I try to understand both their feelings and the facts.
8. What’s your approach to discussing the future of a relationship?
A) I avoid it, it feels too serious or overwhelming.
B) I bring it up early to ensure we’re on the same page.
C) I wait until the timing feels right and discuss openly.
9. How do you feel about compromise in a relationship?
A) It’s hard. I don’t want to lose the spark or excitement.
B) It’s necessary. I value finding solutions that work for both of us.
C) It depends. I weigh my feelings against what’s practical.
10. What’s your ideal vision of a perfect partner?
A) Someone who makes me feel loved, passionate, and alive.
B) Someone stable, reliable, and aligned with my life goals.
C) Someone who balances emotional connection with practical compatibility.
Scoring System:
A = Heart-Driven (Emotionally Focused)
B = Head-Driven (Logically Focused)
C = Balanced Approach (Heart and Head Combined)
Tally up the number of times each letter appears in your responses.
Heart-Driven
You’re heart-driven, you let your emotions guide your dating decisions. While this passion and spontaneity can create deep connections, it may sometimes lead to impulsive choices or overlooking red flags. Practice balancing your feelings with logical considerations to ensure long-term compatibility.
Head-Driven
You’re head-driven, you rely on logic and practicality to navigate dating. Your thoughtful approach helps you build strong, stable relationships, but it may sometimes leave you feeling disconnected from the emotional spark. Focus on embracing vulnerability and allowing yourself to feel deeply.
Balanced Approach
You strike a balance between heart and head, you consider both emotions and logic when making dating decisions. This balanced mindset allows you to connect deeply while ensuring practical compatibility. Keep nurturing this approach by staying mindful of both your feelings and long-term goals.
